Everybody think it but never say it.

Come on yaar u did not even read a single sentence and u r concluding on what I am gonna write… not fair… My frnds always find me bit loud.. I don’t know why… May be I can ask a waiter  how his job is, I can tell him how food tastes.. I never bothered to tell a chef that food tastes worst , or never misses a chance to appreciate him. Recently I went to indijoe  restaurant  in successive days, First with my office team, later day with my cousins,I owe them a party so planned it there as I wont miss my shopping there. At last they gave me a feedback booklet ( yeah it contains so many pages ) So ticked couple of could be better Check boxes. J  then the manager came to me requesting me to change it as it concerns his employers. So funny ofcrse I did that because he is too polite almost  showed me his all communication skills. Its kind of cheating with report cards Ofcrse I told the same to him alsoJ. If you don’t want to listen answers then don’t ask me questions. My frnds never talk in restaurant , Freedom of speech is inversely proportional to Amount of bill. If you are paying you have more restrictions. J

                But my doubt is why ???Why??? U know ur coll dnt have any dressing sense , how can u bear it without saying it. You have a problem with your Team manager ,Write it that is why we learnt communication from out kg’s. Art of expression.. U like someone but never admit that, then whats the reason of having that feeling. I wont believe in eyes can talk kinda stuff, because there are ignorants like who cant understand plain English, so people like me heart talks eyes talk wont be chalega (will kidneys and liver(s?)also talk) SO express it  whatever it is,,,, Don’t load ur head too much…….

Wanna criticize some one do it. Blame him ,(sorry for the masculine :P ) still not satisfied beat him..

Wanna appreciate some one special … If english flattering words not sufficient borrow some from French , Swahili or any African tribal languages.. :P

What ever it is don’t  keep it inside and don’t let ur people bother about these stupid things,, because I know some people who are bothered about office and come home with stupid mood and ruin everything.

If you can sleep at 10 pm then ur brain is in good shape.. so clear all ur temp files, unnecessary things for a fresh start, so that main processes wont get disturbed ……

So I guess enough gyan…. Need to rush for lunch .. take care… bubye…

i hate love stories

I hate love stories:

Am I criminal to use registered title, but taking karan’s permission to use this bit worky, so as my blog comes to non profitable category, and as it serving people, ofcrse ur thoughts are enlightened by reading my blog is nt it ? Hey how z this word worky? Bit of work is too long yaar…. so I decided I am gonna use this fron now on… worky … sounds cool.. wow girl way to go….

Love stories: may be our brains are feeding with them from cindrella (ofcrse I too know it is not completely fell into love story category but prince falls in love at first sight right?) , even in our history we had a great romances, Cleopatra , shajahan ,…. Umm sorry bit poor in history hmm .. Devdas.. Oh I think he wont  count in history , he is a fictional character.. But I cant accept him as fictional character he is into our culture. We have a hell lot of movies based on love stories , novels, stories, poems, dramas. Love is every where. But is it really possible to fall in love at first sight, taking decision to be with her ever ,Here we can even consider our so called arranged marriages where 30 mins talk leads to a marriage.How can it be possible yaar. How can it be. ?

In my case I will take minimum 5 days to say hi to anyone. I hate people for stupid reasons. I am a cleanness freak, I can’t see a person spitting on road. I hate people who don’t eat pizzas. And I am not ever thing as I present my self. I donno how I will react, some times I like rain , the same me some time states that rain is dirty. I am a stupid and I wont admit that. So what my point is that how can it be possible to go to altar based on 30 mins talk. Better be single than incompatible partner.

So coming to these love stories, in real life it wont be like as shown ,read. Love is not about roses, moon light dinners, but off the record it was so lovely to get flowers every day, and moon light is so awesome and damn romantic J….

If you cant convince them confuse them. This is what I did now. J I am not giving you any advice. I am just telling you my doubts, and warning you what if your parents chose a girl like me … J… life would be horrible yaar .. Take care.. U are warned.

being a girl

Being a girl:

Umm….ya u r right…. Its kinda pink topic…. So leave it if you are not interested…. Ya I know I did not know much about this society to comment on this… but i just wanna tell you this how much I saw it with my eyes.. In  my child hood my parents, teachers ,friends does not show me what is being girl… All I know about being girl is .. u can buy more dresses than a boy… But.. slowly…..My granny used to tell me girls should not whistle, should not climb walls, should not play with boys…… from then I am used to hear about this “should not”…. But my dad used to be a savior at that time even my mom too….

But after some time I was used to this “should not”…. A big blow came after my engineering when I said my parents I am gonna write GRE…… The socalled natural reason my mom gave me is… u cant go that much far alone… she gave me some concession … If I really wanna go I can get married……… I thought I cant risk that much for my crazy wish…. So dropped… 

I donno y but 80% of my friends are boys…. So my usual topics are bikes,cars,politics,tech etc kinda all crap what boys used to talk…. Unfortunately they are very decent and protective so I did not actually realize the catch of being girl.. When me and my cousin gone for out.. when we run out of change.. he always told me to go ahead ask someone but he always mentions ask nicely ( lol )ummmm…. its kinda disturbing to me…..  

Now I am travelling on citybuses, mmts, walking alone on road…. Now I came to know what is being girl….

Being girl is not so simple… ofcrse there are pros and cons….

I am watching how a small town girls are spoiling … It’s not about only illiterate or small town women,

But most women are not strong enough to take care of their problems because they never had a exposure. Have any problem ask mamma ,papa,bhayya , friends, cousins, I can understand your protective ness, but that is actually exploiting the inner strength of women,

I know some girls who don’t know how to book tickets for trains,buses, They even don’t to know how to deal with money, banking is calculus to them.. They cant deal with any problem… So that is the reason why they are falling for wrong guys… It is not their problem… Because u made them dependent…

If you really like your sister or cousin or friend , teach her how to be strong, how to look after her,Tell her what exactly society is, Explain her those black and white  creepy documentaries are not for awards but actually some one out are actually facing that hell…If  One Infosys lady employee is kidnapped at mid 12 morning , In which society we are living… Don’t take me as women activist or something… But

This is the fact and we got to be ready for everything…  May be NTR mentioned women woke up before 20 years…. But still we need wake up……

Wake up ur sister /cousin/friend.