being a girl

Being a girl:

Umm….ya u r right…. Its kinda pink topic…. So leave it if you are not interested…. Ya I know I did not know much about this society to comment on this… but i just wanna tell you this how much I saw it with my eyes.. In  my child hood my parents, teachers ,friends does not show me what is being girl… All I know about being girl is .. u can buy more dresses than a boy… But.. slowly…..My granny used to tell me girls should not whistle, should not climb walls, should not play with boys…… from then I am used to hear about this “should not”…. But my dad used to be a savior at that time even my mom too….

But after some time I was used to this “should not”…. A big blow came after my engineering when I said my parents I am gonna write GRE…… The socalled natural reason my mom gave me is… u cant go that much far alone… she gave me some concession … If I really wanna go I can get married……… I thought I cant risk that much for my crazy wish…. So dropped… 

I donno y but 80% of my friends are boys…. So my usual topics are bikes,cars,politics,tech etc kinda all crap what boys used to talk…. Unfortunately they are very decent and protective so I did not actually realize the catch of being girl.. When me and my cousin gone for out.. when we run out of change.. he always told me to go ahead ask someone but he always mentions ask nicely ( lol )ummmm…. its kinda disturbing to me…..  

Now I am travelling on citybuses, mmts, walking alone on road…. Now I came to know what is being girl….

Being girl is not so simple… ofcrse there are pros and cons….

I am watching how a small town girls are spoiling … It’s not about only illiterate or small town women,

But most women are not strong enough to take care of their problems because they never had a exposure. Have any problem ask mamma ,papa,bhayya , friends, cousins, I can understand your protective ness, but that is actually exploiting the inner strength of women,

I know some girls who don’t know how to book tickets for trains,buses, They even don’t to know how to deal with money, banking is calculus to them.. They cant deal with any problem… So that is the reason why they are falling for wrong guys… It is not their problem… Because u made them dependent…

If you really like your sister or cousin or friend , teach her how to be strong, how to look after her,Tell her what exactly society is, Explain her those black and white  creepy documentaries are not for awards but actually some one out are actually facing that hell…If  One Infosys lady employee is kidnapped at mid 12 morning , In which society we are living… Don’t take me as women activist or something… But

This is the fact and we got to be ready for everything…  May be NTR mentioned women woke up before 20 years…. But still we need wake up……

Wake up ur sister /cousin/friend.