being a girl

Being a girl:

Umm….ya u r right…. Its kinda pink topic…. So leave it if you are not interested…. Ya I know I did not know much about this society to comment on this… but i just wanna tell you this how much I saw it with my eyes.. In  my child hood my parents, teachers ,friends does not show me what is being girl… All I know about being girl is .. u can buy more dresses than a boy… But.. slowly…..My granny used to tell me girls should not whistle, should not climb walls, should not play with boys…… from then I am used to hear about this “should not”…. But my dad used to be a savior at that time even my mom too….

But after some time I was used to this “should not”…. A big blow came after my engineering when I said my parents I am gonna write GRE…… The socalled natural reason my mom gave me is… u cant go that much far alone… she gave me some concession … If I really wanna go I can get married……… I thought I cant risk that much for my crazy wish…. So dropped… 

I donno y but 80% of my friends are boys…. So my usual topics are bikes,cars,politics,tech etc kinda all crap what boys used to talk…. Unfortunately they are very decent and protective so I did not actually realize the catch of being girl.. When me and my cousin gone for out.. when we run out of change.. he always told me to go ahead ask someone but he always mentions ask nicely ( lol )ummmm…. its kinda disturbing to me…..  

Now I am travelling on citybuses, mmts, walking alone on road…. Now I came to know what is being girl….

Being girl is not so simple… ofcrse there are pros and cons….

I am watching how a small town girls are spoiling … It’s not about only illiterate or small town women,

But most women are not strong enough to take care of their problems because they never had a exposure. Have any problem ask mamma ,papa,bhayya , friends, cousins, I can understand your protective ness, but that is actually exploiting the inner strength of women,

I know some girls who don’t know how to book tickets for trains,buses, They even don’t to know how to deal with money, banking is calculus to them.. They cant deal with any problem… So that is the reason why they are falling for wrong guys… It is not their problem… Because u made them dependent…

If you really like your sister or cousin or friend , teach her how to be strong, how to look after her,Tell her what exactly society is, Explain her those black and white  creepy documentaries are not for awards but actually some one out are actually facing that hell…If  One Infosys lady employee is kidnapped at mid 12 morning , In which society we are living… Don’t take me as women activist or something… But

This is the fact and we got to be ready for everything…  May be NTR mentioned women woke up before 20 years…. But still we need wake up……

Wake up ur sister /cousin/friend.

kill time-->skip work-->then blog.

Hi everyone…

Quite a long time huh… And did you observe that its not my usual hi.. kinda akasavani Susvagatham… Not like my regular RJ style… (oh no these RJ ate all my brain .. I am not able to stop writing about them..) Day was bit dull yaar irrespective of my attire.. these days I became more show off with all sarees , western wear.. kya karooo..  shopping is the best stress buster….

So coming to office surprise visit from my onsite employer, and kinda warnings from my PM, about the irresponsibility, he used another word which was quite funky… (I will tell you next time…. ) You cant expect for one warning   I wil be responsible.. These days I am banging my head in 2 projects… Don’t gimme that look…. One thing I got from this experience is U cant Satisfy a microsoft  manager. SO regular live meetings, communicator chats.. conferences, mails, follow ups look ups..  so these days that is my life…. In between that I am trying to convince my parents to tell I am old enough…..

So this is all the opera currently going in my  life theatre …  (wow what a line did I became a writer or what).

So coming to technical …. Silverlight 3 , silverlight4 with telerik , with sharepoint with asp.net, interop for office 14 and 12…. You know this greek…  then help me please… If you know any of these words… help me yaar….. even these are haunting me in my dreams… Hey read my class mate blog just now… he is doing good… arey! how come everyone know  what they gonna write… without broken senteces… long pauses… ?????????? umm leave it dis z d way I am…

Hey I got a new compliment Arrogant Lazy lady… thnk u ….thnk u….

Umm do u think that I have to write something on specific topic…..

What to write…. What to….

Hey let me tell you about my onsite employer…

I donno why  but, whenever I meet him .. I am just observing the differences between them and us .. How they talk how they assign task, how they will respond…  He maintains a smile every time… He assigns task as team never mentioned you but we… Never discourages… Never hesitate to make a joke on him… umm I know every people will tell the same… but actually this is d fact.

Ofcrse he is complaining about heat, powercuts, traffic, autowallahs, spices, but that is how we live… How come a calm smooth road trip is actually a journey , mix it up with some signal jumps, some bumpy road, blow a horn even not necessary to scare a ongoer… clutch gear brake that is how we ride right? Move.. halt… thoda sa move.. halt…  J  its funny not unbearable…. Planning to catch up a movie tonight… lets see.. how about a hurt locker,, even though my frnds already complaing about it as slower one.. come on yaar how can a girl will skip Oscar winning lady director  movie…. I am telling you again ,I am not feminist…

Bubye guys.. leaving you for this day… I know I did not discuss on any thing specific today.. coz I dnt want to conclude on anything.. so lets c.